Beauty is measured in terms of Anatomical Structure, Style, Dresses and
accessories in the Fashion World. But, believe me, in Social Circles and real
life the equation is different. It is your Mind that makes you beautiful or
Ugly.
Keep your Mind clear and healthy, it would carry your body with elegance and style. Controlling the Mind is the most difficult of all tasks in the World. You can convince another person that you are beautiful but cannot convince your own Mind to believe it, if it had already made a conclusion about it.
The best way to make your Mind believe in you and your feelings is to start loving your own self. Loving a girl or a boy is an easy task when you come to know how difficult it is to love your own self.
1) No One is Perfect in this World:
Try to do what that you think is perfect. Do not let others influence you in taking your decisions. Believe what you are doing is right. Do not get disappointed by small imperfections or draw backs you detect in your own activity. After all, no one in this World is perfect and you are not an exception for that. Everyone does mistakes. Do not think always about your mistakes but try to think of your positive aspects while striving hard to set right your mistakes.
2) Do not compare yourself with others:
You are what you are and nothing in this world could change that. You can never be like another person and so do not try to imitate any person or try to compare you with others. Instead you can try to compare your past and present experiences and analyse what you have gained and lost. Be content with yourself with what talents, knowledge, Money or other things that you possess. This feeling of self-satisfaction would start a glow in your face which you will notice in a short period.
Keep your Mind clear and healthy, it would carry your body with elegance and style. Controlling the Mind is the most difficult of all tasks in the World. You can convince another person that you are beautiful but cannot convince your own Mind to believe it, if it had already made a conclusion about it.
The best way to make your Mind believe in you and your feelings is to start loving your own self. Loving a girl or a boy is an easy task when you come to know how difficult it is to love your own self.
1) No One is Perfect in this World:
Try to do what that you think is perfect. Do not let others influence you in taking your decisions. Believe what you are doing is right. Do not get disappointed by small imperfections or draw backs you detect in your own activity. After all, no one in this World is perfect and you are not an exception for that. Everyone does mistakes. Do not think always about your mistakes but try to think of your positive aspects while striving hard to set right your mistakes.
2) Do not compare yourself with others:
You are what you are and nothing in this world could change that. You can never be like another person and so do not try to imitate any person or try to compare you with others. Instead you can try to compare your past and present experiences and analyse what you have gained and lost. Be content with yourself with what talents, knowledge, Money or other things that you possess. This feeling of self-satisfaction would start a glow in your face which you will notice in a short period.
3) Understanding your exact requirements:
You might like to have many number of things in your life that may not reflect your exact requirement. So, sit alone, think exactly what you want and why you want it. Once you have determined these basic things devise a plan to make those wishes a reality. Do not let other's possessions influence you in making a decision on what you require. Every human has different requirements, wishes and priorities.
Go by your own priorities.
4) Slow down and make things steady:
You cannot set a goal today and achieve it on the same day. Okay...it might happen so depending upon the task you have in hand and the complexity of it. But under normal circumstances give some time to your own self to achieve those goals. Set a time limit and try to achieve it in that time frame and if there is a deviation from that do not blame yourself entirely for the result. There could be any number of reasons that would have contributed for that deviation. Analyse them thoroughly and set them right. Take your own time after all it is your time and life we are talking about.
In the past you would have performed better or bad, but that has got nothing to do with the present. Do not let those failures influence your present endeavour. The present is always new and fresh and approach it with a fresh mind and attitude.
6) Forgive your own self:
If you have committed a mistake in the past that had spoiled your entire life then that feeling is bound to be inherent in your Mind. It is very difficult erase those feelings unless otherwise you forgive your own self. Repenting for your mistakes all your life is not going to help you in any way.
7) Acknowledge and appreciate not your achievements but your Efforts:
Society judges you by what materialistic achievements you have accomplished through your efforts. Do not go by that. The efforts and hard work you have put into that task will not be appreciated so easily by others as a result is expected from you. But while judging your own self, go not by the accomplishments but by the quality of the efforts you have put in.
Results would start coming in a bit late as you are investing your best on the task but understand and acknowledge it even though others don't. Your achievements are not your real achievements but the path you take to meet them and how you plan the flow. So appreciate your efforts even if results are not coming by, immediately.
8) Take care of yourself:
Your body and Mind are the real assets you have. So please take care of them. Do not say a bad thing about you to others or to yourself. Take time every day to be alone and think what your Body and Mind needs. Appreciate your beauty and mind whenever if you find time. If possible do it every day. This is a real effective way to please your Mind. For health care problems, try to use herbal cures or natural cures.
9) Trust your own self:
Instead of placing trust on others, trust your own self and respect the ideas that your Mind gives you. List out your best qualities and love you for that. Tell yourself that you are not inferior to anyone but in contrast you are what you are and you are the best. Assess your capabilities and try to make use of them effectively. It is the trust you have with you will ultimately convert into the trust of Society.
10) Make others love you by loving you:
A simple deed or help to others would get an appreciation and hearing that appreciation makes your Mind love you. So do only things that you think are good that would get an appreciation from others. A bad deed always pollute not only the society but also your Mind and your mind would never love you again.
When you start loving yourself automatically it brings a shine to your face. Irrespective of what dress you wear or how expensive or inexpensive they are or irrespective of whether you are fat or thin, fair or dark, you will still be glittering like a jewel with the help of your Mind.
Love your own self and make your Mind like you - This is the secret of being a beauty.
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