It doesn't matter what you are? How you
are placed? Or what is your status in Society? - You have a life to lead. The
life that you have to love and nourish till the end. But we ignore the life
itself and live a life of mystery.
It is true that you have to look
beautiful, wear fashionable dresses, make others turn around and stare at you.
But whatever striking beauty you are, you will not get the best outcome of it
if you do not live a life that you love. Being loved by others is important for
everyone. Believe me, if you do not love you, you may not get the sufficient
leverage to make others love you.
There is no doubt that you have to be
successful in your life, earn Money, create a Social status, but if you do not
enjoy the fruits of your success there is no use in living the life. Enjoy
yourself. Give whatever joy that you could give to yourself by understanding
exactly what you really love.
You are born to live. You are more
engrossed in molding a life and in the process forget the life itself.
What is life?
It is very simple as far as Animals are
concerned. They find food, eat, take rest and reproduce and there ends their
responsibility. But for us it is more complicated. Studying, finding a job,
succeeding in it, making money, planning and making a family, it goes on and
on. Most of these are imposed on your life by the Society. What are things you
enjoy doing? Are you doing them? Have you ever thought about exactly what
creates happiness in your mind? Please do it? Find out what you enjoy the most and
do it. Because you have already wasted half of your life. It is time you make
amends to that.
Explore yourself:
Sit alone in a calm and quiet place.
Just think about yourself. Not about what others think about you but what you
think about yourself. But sitting alone for some time is a quite difficult task
in these Modern days. Force yourself to do this at least once in your life.
Think about what are the things you love the most. Immediately you will feel a
regret as you will realize that you have been neglecting your love and desires.
It could be a simple thing like eating an Ice Cream or laughing out loud or
running carefree in a crowded place.
You will get into the truth only when
you do the exploration in a place and situation that is not influenced by
others. Get influenced by your motivation but not by what others expect from
you.
Do not always think about your failures:
Failures are common for everyone. Each
and every person in this world would have experienced it. It is not only you
who have failed. Failure should not embarrass you because failure is a treasure
that gives us an idea about how it happened. You can make a Why? Analysis to find out what caused it and progress
further in your journey of success. Do not blame or punish yourself for your
failures.
Appreciate your own Self:
Do not wait for others to appreciate
you. Be the first one to do that. Be your own friend. Talk with yourself whenever
you find time. Do not hate yourself for your mistakes.
Success is not the only yardstick:
Do not estimate your own self from your
success as the Society does. You are also a part of the society but there is no
rule that you have to accept everything it tells. Think only about the efforts
that you have put in. Efforts matter the most than the success itself. Give the
best of your efforts in whatever work you undertake. Do not let Success or
Failure deter you in progressing and proceeding with your efforts.
Your own self is important to you. Be
it good or bad, it is yours. Love it.
Love yourself for the sake of what you
are and not for the sake of what you wanted to achieve.
In your own way you are the King / Queen.
Let others talk or think whatever they want. Believe in yourself, be strong and
confident.
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