Friday, 16 January 2015

Who wants this 100 Dollar?


There is not a single man in the world who doesn't need money. Everyone needs money. Everyone loves it. We do whatever that is possible in the world to acquire money. People earn money by hard work, by their knowledge, by technical skills, artistic talents, by appearance, by spirituality, by fraud, by robbery, by killing people, by creating chaos and so on.

Money is so valued in life that we do not hesitate to earn it either by straight and crooked ways. When everyone is talking about money and the ways of earning it, I stumbled upon a blog in Tamil where an interesting and motivational article with a fantastic message in it. It attracted me so much that I am sharing the translation of it with you and believe me it is such a wonderful story that you will love and also would be motivational.

Who wants this 100 Dollar?

Once a great scholar was addressing a crowd of people. He took out a $ 100 bill out of his pocket and showed that to the crowd. Instantly everyone got interested. He asked,

“Who wants this 100 dollar?”

Almost everyone in the crowd raised their hands. He smiled and he crushed the note in his hand and again showed the note to the crowd and then asked,

“Who wants it now?”

Everyone raised their hands.

He then dropped it to the ground and with his leg again crushed it again. Now the 100 Dollar bill looked dirty and ugly. He lifted it and again asked the crowd,

“Who wants this 100 Dollar?”

All those gathered there raised their hands.

He then folded the note and placed it back in his pocket and said,

“Even after the 100 Dollar bill is crushed, made ugly and given an unpleasant look, you still want it. Because you know and believe that in spite of its loss in attractive looks, it still retains its value”

“It is just a paper but you have understood the value of it. But, we the human beings are the highest achievement in the process of evolution. Each and every individual is unique and possess talents and character that differ from others. Everyone has a brain which is the top most form of creation and every individual is valuable”

“We as individuals are so valuable that I would say that even the entire money in the world could not buy an individual’s brain or even the most advanced science could create a human or the Brain”

“Do we respect or understand the value of a human we clearly understand the value of Money?”


“No. We give respect to man based on his money making capability, social status and personal looks. Why this discrimination? Every human is valuable irrespective of his achievement or social standing. Do we understand this? If we do not, then it shows that we are still unable to grasp the value and importance of the nature and its greatest creation.”

Translated from the blog of Hariprasad.HV - Motivation Positive Vibration


Saturday, 27 December 2014

5 Easy Ways to monetize your website / Blog with assured results


It is a known fact that Google Adsense is the best option for monetizing your website or blog. But there are problems in that if you are a beginner and want to monetize your site immediately like if you are using a Blogger you cannot monetize your blog unless you have a website registered in your name. If you are in China or India there is another rule set by Google. Your Website should be 6 months old and before that Google will not accept your application.

In spite of that, if you get registered with Google Adsense, ads will start appearing in your Website / Blog. This looks easier but there are issues even in this. You will be able to place only 3 ads in one page. And what I have found in my experience is that Google ads are not interactive and does not induce the user to click on the ads. If you are a beginner and or having a low traffic it would be a miracle if you get 10 dollars in a month as revenue from Google.

I also faced the same situation and started looking for various other options to monetize my website. I found lots of other options and I tried almost all of them. After giving them a try for at least a fortnight, I used to analyse the results and retained only the server who produced more results and deleted the others.

After about six months I have arrived at a consolidated list of Google Adsense alternatives that could give you instant results. It is a very useful experience and I wanted to share the list to you all so that you can also get benefited by this.

5) Chitika:

Chitika is a platform where you can join immediately and get the ad code and implement them. The ads are not interactive but easy accessibility lets it to be placed in the fifth place in my list and you can register and start placing ads through this link
Monetize your Website / Blog in 5 minutes https://publishers.chitika.com/login

4) Quadabra:

Quadabra is an AD provider with whom you can get registered in just 5 minutes and get the ad code. Quadabro offers you with two excellent platforms for monetizing your site. The sliding right or left is a platform that could give you more clicks. There is also another style of Ad called as Stay On ad which is also a platform that could give you good click results. http://www.qadabra.com/

3) ADconnexa – Oxamedia:

I discovered this ad provider accidentally when I was browsing the net. I gave it a try and was able to clicks and revenue instantly because of their two ad formats that makes the user to click on them. They even understand about the keywords and give ads related to he keywords associated with your website or Blog.  You can register in no time and get the ad codes very easily. Follow the link to register and start serving their ads in your site https://adv.adsbwm.com/www/admin/main-stats.php?entity=global&breakdown=affiliates. The On Click full screen ad and transttional ads formats are their speciality and try them in your sites and get maximum benefit from them

2) Clicksor:

Clicksor is an ad provider and serves ads very interactively and gets you more clicks. The best thing about it is that you can register and start getting ad codes almost immediately if you verify your e mail. Clicksor offer you various types of ads to choose from like Banners, Pop-under, Interstital ads and inline text link. Out of these Popiunder, interstitial and inline text links are extremely interactive and get more clicks for you. Try this link, monetize your site instantly and start making money.

1) Revenue Hits:

I have placed this Ad provider in the number one spot as the results you will get from the site will also be fast. Revenue his has about 20 billion which the best in the world with the sole exception of google Adsense. You can join by simply registering and get the codes instantly. Here is the link that you can use to simply register and getting the codes. Please note that  Revenue Hits offers some wonderful ad formats that would induce the visitor to click the ads and wait for at least 10 to 15 days to see the results and I sure even if you are small time blogger you get some positive energy and money from these ads.  Their Shadow Box’ and ‘Popunder’ ad formats are worth giving a try.

There are some other good Ad servers  for your site but most of them would require at least 50000 or more hits per month before joining them. So I have not included in them and shall be writing a separate article about this.

Author: The Author of this article is a Chemical Engineer who has left the job and making money online with 3 websites and 4 Blogs. He has attained immense experience in cliche marketing and targeting audiences of different categories. He writes about Natural cures, Herbal cures, beauty tips, fashion, SEO, Religion and Philosophy.












Friday, 19 December 2014

Top 10 ideas for designing SEO friendly Website


Websites and Blogs are built not to be stagnant but to be dynamic, with viewers of different kind swarming in huge volume and the current of its presence felt and appreciated in all major Social media Sites. This is the Dream of every Website Owner. The secret of realizing the Dream lies with Search Engines and how they are satisfied with your Website and the Contents. With hundreds of Thousands of Websites and Blogs mushrooming and populating the arena, this indeed has become an exhaustive task.


But finding and using the services of an experienced and professional SEO friendly Website Design Service eases the tension a lot and lands you over the success platform in no time. Success through such services might look instantaneous to the user but it takes lots of dedicated efforts using the complete knowledge gathered during a vast period of time. It is almost like deriving a formula with lots of basic equations and combining with a broad underlying principle. With such formulas ready with experienced hands, what you have to do is just enter values in the appropriate places to click and get the answer and in this case – Success is the answer.



How the formula of Success is derived and what are the basic facts that are considered in making it possible?



Top 10 ideas for designing SEO friendly Website

  1. Relevant content presented with an easy flow for reading with lots of related information that would interest and educate the readers is of primary importance for a Website. Though there are more technicalities in making a Content that is Search Engine friendly, Custom made Content Management systems (CMS) lets you relax and concentrate on only your requirements while the rest will be taken care of automatically. 
  2. Every user visitng the Website spends some of his valuable time and it is our responsibility to make that time memorable and useful. The experience, a website gives to the user induces him to visit the site again and again and also to share and re-share the contents. The loading of pages are not to be allowed to exceed the limits of patience of any normal user. Navigation around the Website should be fast and easier. A visitor should be able to gather more information by spending less time in your Website.
  3. Keyword optimization is very important and make sure that you do not overdo it. Stuffing in more keywords will only result in decline of Search Engine Visibility. Do not use more of external links that are purchased by you. More advertisements appearing will also reduce the visibility.
  4. Using the billions of users in Social Media Networks is always going to come handy in increasing the viewers. Create links for your Websites in all leading Social Medias like Face Book, Twitter, Linkedin, Pinterest, Stumbleupon, reddit etc. These sites provide an excellent opportunity for increasing the viewership. Creating facebook Page and or a Google + Page also will help a lot in increasing the visibility of your Website.
  5. Search Engines cannot see the images directly and may not relate the contents in the page with a Photo or Video. To make the engines understand what you intend to communicate with your images or videos, Alt Text has to be added to every image and Video in your Website.
  6. Include an Analytics to keep track of your visitors and communicate with them regularly with recent developments and things that are of interest and ensure that they keep visiting the site again and again. Create back links from different sites from where visitors get access to your Website.
  7. Visually pleasant aesthetic New Design also helps the viewers to spend more time on your website. Readymade templates that bring loads of design experience in one single click is achieved with service providers.
  8. Using advanced HTML 5 with a Search Engine Friendly Web Design always flares success as it imparts a long standing impact in the mind of the visitor. Instead of not using a stable image, using a movable image wherever essential and images that pop up and get bigger when needed also are some of the special effects created by leading providers, that make the site dashingly attractive.
  9. Select Title Tag appropriate for the Product or the service you are promoting through your Website. It could be 70 words in count and should contain a Keyword in it. Title Tag is what that is shown as a link for the search result and better be patient and innovative in creating it.
  10. Meta description not exceeding 150 words with keywords mentioned make the chances of visibility brighter. Nowadays Search Engines do not pay much heed to title tags and Meta Tags but keeping them in order always reap benefits in the long run.

It is a tough but not an unattainable task, that too by getting the professional help of a SEO Friendly Website Design Service provider, Success will be knocking your doors in lightning speed. 

If you are looking for a SEO friendly Website Design Service Provider you can contact me at sathyanarayanan9922@gmail.com







Wednesday, 17 December 2014

How to select your Bra that your spouse would love



We have discussed about Love, various aspects of Love, Ways to Love your own self in my Blogs. There is one more love that is very important. You should make your Bust love your Bra by making the best match - Bra with Bust.

Consciousness is not unique only for you. Each and every part of your Body has consciousness. If they are in trouble they give an immediate impulse to your Brain in the form of Pain or discomfort. Ignoring the impulse or message for extended periods might lead to trouble.

Sensitive parts of your Body like your Bust require extreme care and love. Unlike other private parts of your body you are not just covering it with some fashionable dress. But in the case of your Bust, you are trying to

Enhance it,

Push it up,

Restrict,

Squeeze,

Try to change its form, by using a Bra. If you are changing the Natural position or shape of a Body, you will have to be extremely careful. It is almost like walking on a rope.

Let's learn How to walk on a rope.

Designing a Bra is a real complicated problem. I would like to share an interesting scene here from the famous Novel - Carpetbaggers, written by legendary Harold Robbins (May his Soul rest is peace. I really loved his works and this particular one is one of his best. Do not miss reading it if you get time and chance) 

One young and energetic Business magnet whose wings are spread all over the World, decides to start making Movies. He recommends Rina for the lead female role.  Rina had a multiple role played in his life. First as passionate lover, next as a Step Mother. Having said all this, Rina had a beauty that was exquisite and wild. Best part of her was her Bust and people even died to get a chance of having a peek at it.

On the first day of the shooting our Hero comes a bit late and was surprised to see Rina in a dress that tried to flatten her gorgeous bust. When asked he was told that big, jiggling bust looked odd in movies and so all movie makers tried to flatten them as much as possible. Moreover, her bust were bigger than normal and so they required tight fastening with tapes. Jonas gets angry and stops the shooting and thinks of an alternative. He wanted Rina's ample bust to be shown in Movies as he felt that would enhance her chances of become an instant celebrity. But he did not want to antagonize his Director also.

As this issue went beyond him, he decides to take the help of one of his designers who were the best in industry at that time. He immediately calls one, whom he considered is innovative enough to give a solution for this problem. Interestingly he happened to be an aeronautical Engineer who designs Air Planes. 

Without knowing the purpose the Engineer arrives at the spot with all his design tools as he was given to understand that he may have to design a complicated structure.  He is a confident man in his profession as he knows he could design anything, but his confidence melted away when he was ushered into the Make-up room where Rina was sitting. Jonas breaks the silence,

"I want you to design a support for a pair of hanging mass"

"I will have to take a look at it and take measurements before I start designing"

Jonas Chuckled and turns towards Rina who was sitting in a corner watching the proceedings.

" Rina, Can you please come and show the problem we have in hand"

Rina walks in and opens the robe that covered her bare bust. Jonas was awestruck. The Engineer almost fainted.

"Don't you think they are beautiful?"

"Yyyyes..." He was shivering all over. 

Without hiding this beauty, I want you to design a piece of dress that could support the mass and keep it stable and not jiggling.

Initially, the engineer was a bit confused but when his engineering Mind took over his hesitation, he starts measuring her bust at various angles and directions. With those measurements, he sits and calculates with all the applicable formulas from Physical Science. At last, he makes a rough sketch and gives it to Jonas.

'A complicated problem gets easier if we solve it with proven scientific facts. This issue is about two dead mass hanging without support or with less support. The entire mass is putting stress on the tissues and ligaments that connect the bust with the chest. This pressure might in time makes it sag as those supports lose their power to support such a huge mass. This is almost identical to the problem we face while designing a hanging Bridge"

"So, having a V shaped support that travels around the shoulder blade would solve the issue"

"Yes. Like we do in hanging Bridges"

This is how our present day Bra is born. I do not know this story is true or not but felt it educative and interesting. 

Measuring the size of the Bra :

You can refer to the Tutorial about how to measure the Bra size in here - Types of Bra - Get Closer to your Dreams. You can refer to this to find out the exact measurement of your Bra.

Once you are sure what size of Bra is suitable for you, there are some other things that you have to consider. 
Bra should not be tighter or lose but should fit in snugly. 

The Bra band should encircle your back exactly at the center. Most of the weight of your Bust is going to rest on the bands and so ensure that band is placed in the right position and at the right tension. 

Lift your hands and see if your bust are popping out from the base of the band. If it happens, it indicates that you have purchased a Bra with unsuitable band for you.

Do not let your bust overflow much in top that might look awkward.

While raising the hand also see whether your bra band's position is stable.

Do not let the under wire of your Bra compress your bust tightly together.

The under wire of your Bra should encase the side tissues of your breasts comfortably.

If you follow the above steps you can certainly make your Bust love your Bra by showing your Breasts that you also love and care for it.















Friday, 5 December 2014

Gossiping about Gossips


Everyone loves gossip. Whether it is for just hearing or spreading or creating, we all love it. Things that are murmured and told in less tone always creates expectation and desire to hear it. Some would say that Gossip is just idle talk and rumor. But in many case and many occasions this has become a part of the life and had created history making people or destroying people.

Yes a Gossip can be both advantageous and also could become a disaster for an individual or a group or for a country even. With the advent of internet and modern technology Gossip has become more powerful because of the reach it has. Now a Gossip could reach millions and millions of people in no time at all. Gossip is more powerful than the most powerful machinery or weapon ever invented by Man.

Gossips appearing and becoming viral in the net do not affect your actual life as they are mostly about Celebrities, Politicians or famous Sports men. But a gossip in your local area or in your work place can directly affect you and can create effects that are good and bad.

Indications of a Gossip:

Consider you are entering a place or a location where a group of people are gathered and talking. If the place becomes suddenly silent then you can say that they were talking about you and it is a gossip. You have broken a running conversation that was interrupted by your entry. There are other signs as well.

You can find people staring at objects or other people without any reason and purpose pretending they are engaged in some serious thought. Believe it, they are actually doing some serious thinking, may be about you or your actions or your personality.

There are instances when people would start talking topics that are not related to the occasion or the place. You might wonder why and how the topic had come into existence.

Why people should gossip. That too particularly about a person. 

Gossips could be of two kind - Good and bad. 

Good gossips boost your reputation but bad gossips try to diminish your image among fellow people.
Gossip requires the following three bases to build up a topic and expand it.

1) You should have done something very extraordinary that is liked by a person who is a natural creator of gossips.
2) You should have done something weird out of ordinary that has drawn attention on you.
3) You are succeeding or going to succeed in a big way.
4) You have failed or about to face a failure of great dimension.

What you should do if you think people are gossiping about you?

Just ignore it. This is the best way of neutralizing a gossip. Even just a word from you about the topic would fuel the fire and make it burn and spread faster.  It might also help you, if you are in business and the gossip is about your business. In such a case you can try to fuel it by adding additional tempo. This would certainly increase the possibilities of making your business a success at a faster rate.

How Gossips initiate?

Try to understand what initiated a gossip. If it is a good deed of yours then you can better keep quiet and watch the developments as a mute spectator. But if it is because of a bad deed of yours, sit silently in your private place and think what you have done is right or wrong. Irrespective of what people talk about this, you will be having your own opinion and understanding about that highlighted topic. Convincing yourself whether it is right or wrong is the main task you would have in your hand. Because convincing your own self is much more difficult than convincing others.

Other important action you can take is, do not get into any gossips in your work place or in any other place even if it is about others as the next gossip might target you.

If you are convinced that the gossip is about you only, try to gather facts and figures about that and do a complete analysis on the subject. If honestly you find that the mistake is yours then try try to make amends. Do not feel ashamed to even apologize to the worst of your enemies which would only help you in boosting your image and popularity. If you feel that the thing has gone beyond your limits get some help from your trusted friends or relatives.

There are some positive aspects of gossips also. 

Gossips help people in understanding about others in that social group. It also creates a social bondage among people who were not that much attached together. Gossips sometime break the existing notions and understandings we have without any difficulty and help us in start a new mind set about that particular person or the society in general.

Positive gossips about a person increase his reputation within an organisation or Society.  Gossips are normally informative, whether true or not is our concern that helps as tool of educating people and acts a school of social bonds and strategies.

 There are negative impacts also that derive from gossips.

Gossips waste a lot of time that stops people from engaging in productive acts. 

Gossips makes people lose morality and trust among a group or an organisation.

Gossips might increase the anxiety of people that keeps them tensed all the time about what they know and what they intend to know about the topic. Another thing that drives people is to find out the truths behind the gossip and in their quest for their truth they might start a separate gossip unknowing that might become a bigger one than the original gossip.

Gossips can also create divisions inside a society that could prove dangerous. It could leave a person very much hurt and some incidents this had resulted in Suicides even.

Most of the people who create gossips and spread it are socially or economically weak or under developed or developing from the bottom. Beware, gossips are not going to help in any way. The likability index of your personality also takes a beating as those hearing your gossip about another person might think that you might do the same to him also and would tend to be careful with you or try to keep some distance from you.

Gossips are good as long as they are for the good cause and even if it is for a bad cause do not get involved in it and keep yourself away from the gossipers.











Thursday, 4 December 2014

The Minimalist Guide for being a Fashion Icon


Fashion is not what Celebrities propagate but it is how you realize and incorporate the intricacies of beauty and elegance to suit your Anatomical structure.

Dresses endorsed by top Models might look absurd if it is not matching your structure.

Is it only the structure of your body that determines fashion? No, there are other factors that make you stand on top among a group of people. I have listed 7 rules of fashion for an individual. 

  • Anatomical Structure
  • Colour
  • Convenience
  • Comfort
  • Occasion
  • Company
  • Expectation


Anatomical Structure:

A female body is a perfect blend of Curves, angles and Projections. Make sure that your room is locked securely. Explore your own body first. Stand naked before a full sized Mirror and stare at your physic for some time at various trajectories.  Examine the curves in your body and the angle at which it is curved. Look at your projections and then determine about what are your positive aspects of your beauty. You might want to make some Curves look prominent and some to be hidden. You might feel your shoulders are broad, your boobs too small or too big, Position of your Navel - whether you want to expose it or not, How your legs look like - whether healthy, slim or lengthy or short and so on and on.

Mentally decide which parts you want to make prominent and the parts that you want to hide. If you find everything perfect, you may not require a dress at all, but as this is not socially accepted you still have to decide on a dress.

Color:

Deciding on a Color or combination of Colors is very much important while selecting a dress. Color of the dress should complement your own skin tone. It can be bright, colored, printed, plain, embroidered, design etc. I have seen dark colored girls preferring bright colored dresses. But I personally feel that a combination of bright and light colors would suit them the most. The percentage of combination might vary as the Color of human skins vary from person to person. You can take my help by sending your snap shot to my e-mail ID sathyanarayanan9922@gmail.com. Confidentiality assured.

Comfort:

Comfort is what that makes you carry and present your beauty to others. If you are not comfortable with a dress, in spite of its exquisite design and beauty, it might fail to elevate your beauty. Try to select a dress that you can wear comfortably which allows you to stand, walk, talk and sit freely. Remember, you will have to perform all these actions when you go out and those actions decide how beautiful you are.

Convenience:

Do not wear a sweater during summer or wear a short skirt during winter. Of course you can wear them and there is no rule from stopping you from doing this. But you might feel inconvenient that would affect the way you present your beauty. It is just an example I am telling but there could be many things that you might feel convenient with. You should be conveniently poised to present your beauty.

Occasion:

Decide your dress in accordance with the occasion. Dress sensibly to suit the occasions. Do not go to a party with your suits on. Do not go to Church with an exposing outfit. Be elegant and poised while entering your work space. 


 Company:

With whom you are going out also has to be considered while selecting a dress. Try to be modest when you are outing with your Parents or relatives. Be bold and sensational while going out with your boyfriend. Try to be as casual as possible when you meet old friends.

Expectations:

Expectations can be yours or others or both. Ask this question - What do you expect to accomplish ? You might want to be prominently placed in a crowd, or you might want everyone to notice you and appreciate your beauty or you might want to disappear in a crowd, or might want your Cleavage to be appreciated or your legs to be seen etc.

First decide what you expect from you and select your dress accordingly. Also think about what others would expect from you and alter or change your selections.







Saturday, 29 November 2014

Mind Boggling Mind Facts


Welcome back to my Blog Friends. 

Fashion and Style are what we create with dress we wear, Dresses do contribute to your Style but the Signature beneath it is always yours.

You have the capability to create a fashion or Style in your own way and dresses are just tools that you employ to express your inner self.

You are the fashion and you are the Style. Without you, Fashion and Style cannot exist but you can exist without them. 

You are the Prime force. Believe in yourself and step out with confidence.

How is life and hope you are getting ready for a long and enjoyable weekend? 

Whether you are single or with a boyfriend or husband, week end is a week end and there is no denial that each and every week end is special and unique for every individual.

Yes, special in the sense that it creates a lot of expectations and hope. But when the week end is over nothing but a huge emptiness remains. I have felt that. I believe each and every girl reading this also would be feeling the same way as I do. We always wait for the weekend to come and always dream of making it memorable. We always remember the pain of waiting for it but the week end disappears faster than you expect leaving you frustrated. But still your yearning to enjoy a weekend never ends.

Some plan for the week end but most take what that comes on the way and most ly that comes easily is sleep and so I believe most of you girls love to be lazy during the period.

Get up late in the morning, have a nice and strong Coffee in the bed, just thinking and half dreaming about what happened the day before. Especially the night that had just passed away.  May be the night had just given you dreams or a dreamy time with your partner who is either still staying the bed with you or had rushed to his home after the job is completed. Whatever be the case hang over still remains and you try hard to become brisk and the first try is Coffee.

While having your Coffee your mind wanders here and there. If you ask me no one in this World is alone. Everyone is always accompanied by a talkative mind that never leaves you. It always talks with you as if it is talking to a third person.  It appreciates you, encourages you, scolds you, fights with you, contradict you and sometimes might hate you also. You can ignore anything in this World but not the Mind that keeps you engaged till the end. 

I want to add some lines here about Mind, which may not be boring I presume. 

Mind is broadly classified into two categories - Conscious and sub-conscious minds. Conscious Mind does not allow you to be alone and sub-conscious Mind, controls all the inner actions of your body. Conscious Mind sleeps when you sleep and wakes up when you wake up. But sub-conscious Mind never sleeps and remains always active to control and operate the Miraculous Human Body. 

You might become tired of the boring Conscious Mind sometimes because you can never get rid of it. It cajoles you, nags you, interferes in all your actions, and becomes critical in warning and advising you. But we tolerate it because we have no options. So, if you feel that you are alone, take that thought off you because you always have a companion in your Mind. 

Though others could not see it or feel it, you will be seeing it, hearing it talk and make you tired in many ways. 

But you cannot ignore it. 

What is a Conscious Mind?

Is it the Brain that is talking to you?  

Or is it the Soul that is residing inside you is talking, I really do not know and believe no one in the world knows that. It is an integral part of your body that never leaves you till death. OH...I am Sorry, Here again no one knows whether it leaves you after death. If you consider that the mind is not leaving you even after death, then it means that you will be able to see, hear and feel after death also.

In this case Mind cannot be considered as brain as Brain dies when a human dies. So is it the Soul that is always talking to you all these times?

May be or May not be.

Because no one knows what it is?

Most of us go along with the mind as if nothing special is happening because you cannot answer openly to the queries of you Mind because if you do you might be considered Mad as people around you will see you talking with yourself. So you don't have freedom to talk to your Mind even. But in times when you are all alone getting tired of the murmurings of your Mind, you might swear aloud and even threaten your Mind from making noises. But immediately you will look around to see if someone had watched you swearing.  

We talk about freedom in every state of our life while being locked in with your Mind that never lets you do anything freely. You cannot complain about that. You cannot apply for a divorce. You cannot break the relationship. You are for ever bound with your Mind.

So, now you have finished your Coffee and still your Mind is not finished with its raving. Force yourself out of your bed, take a bath, if you have a habit of doing so, dress up nicely and start looking for someone who could keep company with you. At least to keep you engaged so that you are freed from your Mind. 
Have a nice and enjoyable week end.